Here at Impact, we have the opportunity to gather with peers and staff in discipleship groups. This involves meeting once a week, with a different student leading each time. These groups aim to create space for spiritual growth, accountability, encouragement, and deeper community. Experiencing this kind of deeply intentional time together has had a major influence on my desire and motivation to participate well in relationships. Meeting regularly has created space for honest conversations, encouragement, and significant spiritual growth.
Throughout this time, God has been teaching me that we have not been called to be consumers, but instead to be participants. It is very easy to engage in relationships only for the sake of what you get out of them. It becomes more difficult when you engage in a way that requires stepping outside of your comfort zone. It takes effort and intentionality. Within our group, we have been learning together how to do this. Sometimes that means spending time together outside of scheduled meetings, remembering each other’s favorite foods and drinks, or choosing to engage in meaningful conversation even when we are tired and do not feel like it. Overall, the Lord has used this group to show me that following Christ means actively participating in the lives of others.
The relationships in my discipleship group have played a huge role in shaping my character. Having people who consistently ask about my spiritual life has helped me become more intentional and consistent in my pursuit of Jesus through spiritual disciplines. I have seen all of us grow in vulnerability and honesty throughout the semester. This has happened as we regularly pray for one another, share struggles openly, and encourage each other in our faith. Being surrounded by people who genuinely care about my spiritual growth has been both challenging and encouraging.
Discipleship has also shown me how crucial it is to invest in others. Through this experience, I have learned important relational
skills such as listening well, asking thoughtful questions, and being present for others. These are skills that will be valuable in every relationship I have throughout my life. I have also learned that discipleship does not have to be something intimidating. It is not about having all the right answers or being the most spiritually mature person in the room. Instead, it is simply about intentionally walking alongside someone and helping each other know Christ more deeply.
As I look ahead to my future, I hope to carry these lessons and skills with me by seeking out intentional relationships, participating in and creating small group communities, and mentoring younger believers. I desire for discipleship to remain a priority in my life, something I intentionally pursue rather than something that only happens in a structured program. Through this experience, I have realized how crucial discipleship is in helping us mature in our relationship with the Lord. I believe this is something the Lord has called all to pursue. Discipleship is not just a program for a season, but a lifelong calling to walk with Christ and help others do the same.
Chloe Erlewine
Class XX Fellow